Cake for Comments!

July 16, 2010

It’s that time of year again. That glorious, much-celebrated time called… my birthday!

I’m not sure if you’ve noticed, but community giving is VERY important to me, and volunteering/charitable giving ranks up there in my list of priorities. With that in mind, I know that our food pantries struggle with keeping their shelves stocked. To go a step further, I have a huge soft spot for kids and it occurs to me that kids of families that frequent food pantries may not always have a birthday cake or fresh fruit (my personal favorite!) When the typical donations are canned or boxed foods, there seems to be a lack of both birthday cake mixes and fresh food given out at a typical food pantry.

So, I’d like to announce Cake For Comments!

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Please leave a comment on THIS blog post, telling me something you appreciate about my business, a memory you have of me, or even a favorite picture. Basically, make me smile!

For every comment I receive, I’ll donate a cake mix, frosting, OR $1 towards the Crawford County Markets Care program. (This program allows local food pantry customers to obtain fresh goods from the local farmers market. For more information on how YOU can contribute to this extremely important non-profit endeavor covering many counties in southern Wisconsin, please click HERE or contact me.)

So… please help me help the local food pantry… leave comments!

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  1. Lindsay Nickol Delagardelle   –  

    My favorite thing about Studio Noveau, and yourself, is exactly what you are doing now. Not only are you innovative/creative but you take that to a whole new level in your job and then again in great things like this! Proud to have had worked with you!!! :)

    My best!,

    Lindsay Nickol Delagardelle

  2. Meghann Crawford-LaRoy   –  

    You have a special “eye” when it comes to beautiful portraits. If you lived closer to us I would have you over all the time taking pictures of our kiddos (you would be so annoyed with us)!!! Your kind heart makes a great addition to the Eby family even if we are 800 miles away! Also give, give, give to the Crawford County Markets program…it’s such a great name (tehehe). You are the best and Happy Birthday!

  3. Erin Oilschlager   –  

    I haven’t had the opportunity to make TOO many memories with you yet, but judging by your character and your values I think you have heart of gold girl! I do love your laid back witty personality and that you are willing to just got with the flow, a perfect fit to the crazy puzzles of wedding planning :-) A very happy birthday to you and enjoy your birthday float!!!! Can’t wait to see you again in September!
    Erin Oilschlager

  4. Joan/BitsyCreations   –  

    I haven’t known you too long, but in the short time we’ve worked together, I absolutely did notice your kind heart and your willingness to find people who need your giving spirit. What a wonderful idea to donate cake mixes. I would never have thought of it.

  5. Agi   –  

    I am so glad that I got to grow up with you in good ol’ Chetek. It is nice to see success as a product of hard work! Happy Birthday!

  6. mary   –  

    what a great idea…and I Love cake too …never thought about kids not having cake…amazing what we take for granted…..thanks for making us think….

  7. Laura & Jake Stebnitz   –  

    Happy Birthday Rebecca! You deserve it with all the work you do on both the level of your business and for the community. While we are a little far to make our own donation to Crawford Food Market, in your birthday honor there will be a donation to both Brown and Shawano County food pantries. This way your influence will reach across the state.

  8. Laurie   –  

    My favorite thing about you is how you turn strangers into friends so quickly and make them feel like they have known you forever. :)

  9. Jennifer Eby   –  

    What a wonderful idea. The thing I like most about you is that you are so giving. Every time I log on to your site I can see how much you have given to others through your gift of photography and the charities that you support. You are not afraid to jump in and get your hands dirty and you always seem to find a new idea or way to get a job done. Well done on this idea I think it is exceptional.

  10. Dani Stephenson   –  

    Great Idea, Happy Birthday, Love all your photos, your a fabulous person and I love that you give back to the community :) How about those comments? are you smiling? I got more?!

  11. Krystal   –  

    Happy Birthday! I have too many favorites to list, but one is that you are always there for me when I need a shoulder to vent on and that you are so caring and giving, which isn’t always the case in the “biz”. I appreciate your friendship. Plus you are one rocking photographer

  12. Amanda Crowe   –  

    BIG birthday wishes to an amazing person and friend who gives SO much of her time and talent to help everyone around her! Rebecca you are an incrediably gifted photographer and an even better person, Thanks so much for all you do! Have a super duber Birthday!!!! -amanda

  13. Julie   –  

    I agree with Laurie. You are so good at making people feel comfortable! I got to experience it when I met you and I can tell from your portraits that you just put your clients at ease. You are awesome! Happy Birthday!

  14. Bridget and Kyle   –  

    We love how fun you and Ben are! You two made our wedding day so fun. It is surely a sign of how you live–always smiling with him and always enjoying the time you have together. Happy Birthday!!!

  15. cammie   –  

    Becky, You are as sweet as the frosting and cakes you are providing through this giving idea! It was fun to be with you at our girls night out! And, of course, I remain one of your biggest fans in the photography department, but I fear I comment TOO much!!! Enjoy your birthday, you deserve a great cake for yourself! Luv ya! Cammie

  16. Jessica   –  

    I’ve seen and personally experienced the care you put into capturing other people’s precious life moments, but one favorite memory was watching YOU on YOUR wedding day. Every little detail perfectly showcased what an incredibly beautiful, creative, thrifty, and classy lady you are. Happy birthday to one of my all-time favorite people!

  17. Melody Jipson   –  

    This says it all! Even on a day that’s supposed to be all about you, you are thinking of others! I think it’s a rare treat to find someone willing to give like you are…and I guess your pictures aren’t too shabby either ;)

    Happy Birthday Rebecca!

  18. Andrea Paradowski   –  

    Yumm, Cake! Here’s a comment for food donation! This is an awesome idea :)

  19. Katie Tredinnick   –  

    You are one of the best photographers, business women, and ladies that I have the pleasure of knowing. Your drive is very admirable and your product is even better! I wish you, your husband, and your business nothing but the best! You deserve all the blessings that life has to offer.

    I hope you had a wonderful birthday, and here’s to many many more! :)

  20. Amy S. Enyart   –  

    First of all, Happy Birthday!

    Thanks for thinking of others! Too often I have seen comments of some very ugly people that seem to resent a child having a birthday cake if the parents are having hard times and can’t afford it. It’s very cool to find someone that wants to do something about it, not only on your own, but bringing the issue to the attention of others!

  21. Elizabeth   –  

    Is it cheesy to say that I just simply LOVE you and you’re an amazing big sister? And I love your photography…especially the pictures of me!!! haha

I admit it.

June 22, 2010

I’m a bad blogger. Well, maybe not a BAD blogger. What I should say is that I get SO busy from all these fabulous weddings and sessions that I don’t always keep up with my blog like I should! So please accept my apologies that May and June have been so busy that I can’t keep up on posting. :)

So, I’d like to assure you that there is lots of blog awesomeness on the way, including four weddings, several engagement sessions, and one Rock The Dress session. Whew! If you’d like to see a little bit of what’s been going on, please make sure to swing by the Studio Noveau Facebook page where I post sneak peaks of every wedding/session I shoot. You can check that page out by clicking HERE. The fan page is almost to 600 fans, and when we hit 600 I’ll be doing another giveaway!

Lastly, more big news. Did you see the new Studio Noveau website? It was launched yesterday and is SO great that you MUST check it out. Right now. :) You can view it at www.studionoveau.com.

Check back soon for the latest and greatest… and have a great day!

-Rebecca

Amazing!  This wedding was simply amazing. She’s a teacher, he’s a doctor. She’s detailed and gorgeous, he’s thorough and handsome. Together, they an unstoppable team. Does it get any more perfect than this?

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Recently, I had the honor of driving down to Des Moines for Bridget and Kyle’s tastefully elegant wedding. And, as many of you know, my husband Ben was acting as my second shooter and joined me on this trip! This wedding was especially fun for me in several ways in addition to Ben shooting with me. A little history on Bridget and Kyle is that they met on Facebook through mutual friends, and much of their early communication was done in person and on Facebook. So when Bridget found me on Facebook, we all thought it was fun that they decided to choose Studio Noveau as their wedding photographer. :)

My day started at Bridget and Kyle’s condo, where the girls were getting ready. Bridget planned ahead to reserve the beautiful community room in the building. With floor to ceiling windows, this room was gorgeous, uncluttered, and had simply amazing light. Future clients, please take note. This combination makes for gorgeous, relaxed pictures! I loved Bridget’s {blue} shoes and her dress.  Maybe I’m kinda partial to Pronovias dresses because my own wedding dress was by designer Pronovias.  Bridget also wore pearls (so did I!) so I couldn’t help but love her entire bridal attire!

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Did I mention she was a radiant bride?  Just look at that smile!

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I love this moment with Kyle and his mom!  And I also loved the curvy wall above, located in their church.  Of course we had to grab a quick portrait there!  Their church was the amazing St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church in West Des Moines.

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Their first look was one of the sweetest I’ve EVER seen!

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These next two were taken by Ben.

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How cute is this one!  By the time Kyle got Bridget and all her layers into the car, it was such a cute picture that I had to jump out of my car, run over to theirs, and grab this photo.  :)

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Off to the Rose Garden, the location where Bridget & Kyle got engaged.  As such a meaningful spot, they knew all along that they wanted photos taken there.  And with the fun architectural pieces, the amazing light, and all the green vegetation around, I was one happy girl!

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Ben took these next three.  Apparently Kyle likes golf.  (Isn’t that a requirement for doctors?)
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After the Rose Garden, we had one more fun stop.  Their reception was at the historic and beautiful Hotel Savery in downtown Des Moines.  Kyle and Bridget rented the penthouse for a small pre-party for their parents and wedding party during the cocktail hour.   We were able to grab some fun shots up there on the roof that had great views of the capitol building and other cool things.  This post is already getting super long so I’m only going to post a couple, but there were so many great shots!
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Reception:

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Bridget and Kyle, congratulations! Thank you for allowing Ben and I to share such an important day. I’m looking forward to your Rock the Dress session in June!

A recent review!

April 26, 2010

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Just wanted to share a snippet of a recent email from Kristin, my April 10th bride.  She wrote:

First of all, Luke and I (along with EVERYONE else that has seen them) love, love, love the wedding photos!!  I knew that I loved your style the first time I saw your website, and you definitely captured and delivered that style again for our wedding day.  And I am still amazed at the variety of settings you found throughout the church to use in the photos, especially the plain, little meeting room with the single window with light streaming in that you had me sit in front of…so simple, yet so dramatic…only someone with an eye for photography would have known that was going to be such a perfect spot!  Love it!!  Ben did an awesome job as well…we’re so lucky to have had both of you join us (I, too, am a fan of the fish-eye lens)!  I hope you both had a good time working with us!  Thank You so much for everything, we’re so delighted with how everything turned out!!

Thanks, Kristin and Luke!  Ben and I absolutely enjoyed sharing your day and documenting it for you.  :)  Congratulations again!

To view the original blog post, click HERE, or check out their Facebook album with over 100 images by clicking HERE.

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  1. Krystal   –  

    I know I have commented on this picture elsewhere, but I am SOOOOO in love with it! it is just timelessly gorgeous! I adore it.

First it was going to rain.

Then it was going to thunderstorm.

Then it was *maybe* going to rain.

SO… we ultimately decided we’d just keep Tricia and Dustin’s engagement session scheduled, rather than try to reschedule.  And, of course, the weather was AWESOME!  I love when things work out.  :)  And here are just a few of the photos from their session in Viroqua!  (Let me point out, dear readers… I am trying desperately to keep up on blogging in a timely fashion.  It’s one of my 2010 goals!)

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Tricia and Dustin, I’m looking forward to your wedding in La Crosse soon!  I had a blast working with you guys!

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  1. Tiffany   –  

    I kept meaning to comment on these on Facebook, so I’m glad I had a second chance on your blog. It’s so fun to see these being they are in Viroqua and it’s Tricia! Glad your session worked out. Love the locations and love the red shoes.

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Hmm, have I ever mentioned I’m behind on blogging? Because I am. This next session even has SNOW on the ground, but it’s the middle of April already! Please don’t judge me. :) If you want to see the latest and greatest as soon as they are shot, make sure to become a fan on Facebook… typically, sessions are posted to Facebook within two days! The blog… well, the blog doesn’t get quite as much love!

Anyway, meet Casey and Zach. These guys rock. They were having a heck of a time deciding between a winter and spring engagement session, so we decided to do BOTH! Yes, we divided their session up into two mini-sessions so they could get the best of both worlds. (If you are a client of mine and interested in the same, please inquire for details!)

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What I loved about this session was that we were able to try some SUPER fun locations that were very off-the-beaten-path. After all, you may not always get to be adventurous with photos on your wedding day, so why not make it a goal for your engagement session? I loved this location with all the crates!

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Casey REALLY wanted photos with this old sleigh. I was a bit skeptical at first, but after her “crew” showed up to help us move it (thanks to her dad and brother!), I could see how cute it would be. Don’t you love it?
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And I LOVE this grove of trees. And how Casey and Zach really just “pop” because of the muted background colors.
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Saturday was the beginning of Studio Noveau’s wedding season and I have a couple “teaser” images to share with you.  Full blog post will be here soon, but for now, please enjoy these images of Kristin and Luke.  

Ben (my husband) and I drove up to Woodbury, Minnesota for this beautiful wedding. From her peep-toe pumps, cocktail length gown, and birdcage veil, Kristin just oozed with class and style.   From his quiet but steady demeanor to his classic tux, Luke looked every bit the part of the easy-going gentleman. They were both so relaxed and it put all of their guests at ease. What a fabulous wedding!

Some details:
Ceremony: King of King’s Lutheran Church.
Reception: Prestwick Golf Club
Caterer: Axel’s at Prestwick
Bride’s Dress: David’s Bridal
Makeup Artist: Ulta
Cakery: McHatties
DJ: Bellagala

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  1. Josh Zytkiewicz   –  

    I really love the first bride portrait.

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Thanks to ALL of you who entered the contest for two copies of the Offbeat Bride book.  I had a blast reading about your ideas for your offbeat weddings.  LOVED IT!  I wish you could all get a copy of the book, but unfortunately I’m limited to choosing only two winners.  Thanks again to Offbeat Bride for offering this promotion.  :)

The winners are…

(generated randomly by the number generator at www.random.org)

Drumroll please….

Kristin and Stacie!

#4 , Kristin

Our save the dates are decoders and our reception will be pretty close to a carnival.  I’ve been wanting to read this book for a long time!


And #28, Stacie

Our wedding is over a year away, but as English majors we’re going to be incorporating books into the centerpieces (instead of flowers), and authors’ names at our into a backyard Montana wedding with a vintage vibe. I am currently on the fence about acquiring a vintage pink dress from the 40’s for my wedding dress. I tried it on while playing dress up in a costume shop last summer and commented that it was the perfect style for my some-day wedding dress (this was before I was even dating the some-day groom).


Stacie and Kristin, please email me at rebecca (at) studionoveau.com with your addresses so we can get your book sent out to you!

(And don’t forget to become a fan of Studio Noveau photography on Facebook… I LOVE Offbeat weddings and I LOVE to travel!!)

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This past weekend, I had an absolute blast joining my friend, the uber-talented Krystal Muellenberg of Krystal Muellenberg Photography for a wedding in Baltimore.  It was our first time shooting together, and we had a blast.  Not only were Erica and Dave fantastic to work with… their wedding party rocked as well!  Make sure to check out Krystal’s blog since I’m just going to post a FEW of my favorites… there were so many awesome moments throughout the day that there’s no way I could post them all.

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And check out the fun video slideshow with a few more pictures from their day!
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  1. Krystal   –  

    how many times can i say how much i adore these pictures? obviously a lot! I seriously LOOOOOOVE the last one on the left. it is just too perfect. and you. you are awesome! I am beyond blessed to have had you there with me. But spoiled too. Now I want you to shoot with me all the time. YOU ROCK!

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It’s definitely not a secret that I LOOOOOOOVE creative, fun weddings that really allow the personality of the couple to shine through.  I love that wedding trends are moving towards each celebration being a one-of-a-kind event without the bride and groom feeling that they have to follow the “cookie-cutter” mold of a traditional wedding.

A few weeks ago, I was asked to do a book review for the book “Offbeat Bride“. And, knowing my weakness for all things wedding-related and quirky, I jumped on the opportunity!  In the interests of market research, I took the book along on my trip to the WPPI Photography Conference in Vegas AND along to Erica and Dave’s wedding in Baltimore.  This month I’ve had a LOT of time sitting in airports!  So, editors of Offbeat Bride, here are my thoughts!

First of all, let me say that I never really considered myself an “offbeat bride”.  Yes, I tried to personalize my wedding and am happy with all the unique things that Ben and I incorporated into our day, but I felt like we needed to do things a certain way to follow typical wedding “etiquette”.  Now I wish I had read this book three years ago!  Looking back now, I would have probably skipped the dance part of the evening, and had a jazz band rather than a DJ.  I would have worn more comfortable shoes and let Ben have a little more fun with his outfit.  Even though my family isn’t as unique as the author’s, I still took away a lot of advice that made me wish I’d done things slightly differently.

One thing I loved is that the author, Ariel, didn’t feel the need to follow tradition if it didn’t work for them.  For example, she didn’t want to make her single female friends feel embarassed about the bouquet toss.  So she skipped it!  Because they felt passionately about sticking to their budget and also being eco-friendly, their outdoor wedding seemed perfect for “muglies”, an ugly mug picked up at a thrift store for .25.  These Muglies served as beverage holders for all of their guests for the entire evening, and were a fun conversation starter.  The Muglies also served as wedding favors… the uglier, the better.  Michele and Jason, one of my couples from 2008 asked family members to make homemade jam to use as placecards and favors… I love that idea!

They found ways to incorporate both of their values into the event: he was a vegan, and she was wasn’t.  Solution?  Vegan dinner and both vegan and non-vegan dessert.  She wanted a non-traditional dress and he was uncomfortable in a tux.  Solution?  Corset top with wedding skirt made of lime green organza over ivory satin.  Classy, huh?  The groom wore a suit with the sleeves ripped off.  That wouldn’t have worked for my wedding, but for them, it was the perfect choice… and I love that!  One trend that I’ve loved lately is allowing the girls to pick their own dress in a certain shade, and giving them a choice for shoes, and allowing the guys to wear a suit:

One thing I loved about Ariel’s views on weddings was that she knew where to splurge and where to cut back.  For them, they spent little money on decorations and invitations, but splurged on her shoes and wedding photography.  As a photographer, I was worried she’d say that they did without photos (gasp!), but as Ariel stated “Paying an experienced wedding photographer was one of the wedding budget items that I refused to scrimp on.”  They ignored the typical wedding magazine photos lists that include things like “Mom helping bride with veil” and “Dad whispering last minute advice to groom”.  Instead, their photographer caught real moments with the day’s events.  Yes, they did formal pictures.  But they were quick, painless family groupings and with the wedding party that flew by, and saved more time for moments for just the two of them and the photographer… so they could enjoy the day with the rest of their guests.  But above all, they kept things casual, such as this fun, relaxed portrait from Renee and Justin’s wedding:

My overall impression of the book was that it really kept things in perspective. While many couples won’t have to deal with some of the very different family situations mentioned in the book, almost any bride or groom could benefit from reminders of why you are actually getting married in the first place (and help you figure out if you REALLY need to have a traditional wedding cake or adhere to the all-women bridesmaid suggestion).

Idea from Michele and Jason’s wedding that I adore: asking family members to make special family-favorites for dessert, and forgoing the cake altogether.  Then they included recipes for each dessert in their wedding program booklet:

Idea from Liz and Ed’s wedding: all the flowers came from Ed’s mother’s garden, and they just asked a florist friend to assemble the bouquets and boutonnieres.

Who says weddings can’t have an element of playfulness?

Lisa and Rick shared a love of all things medieval.  So they decided their day should reflect it.  No traditional white programs for this ceremony!

Similarly, Lisa didn’t want a white wedding dress.  So she wore orange.  Love love love it!

Shoes.  Enough said:

So.  Are you interested in being unique?  Does the thought of breaking out of the traditional-wedding mold sound like fun to you?  If so, leave a comment below with something you want to do for your wedding that really signified YOU as a couple, or a fun detail you are excited about!  I’ll be choosing two people randomly from the comments left, and the editor of Offbeat Bride will be sending you a free copy of the book!

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  1. Melody   –  

    As you know, I L.O.V.E different ideas, simple things that stand out and don’t follow EVERY tradition! There are so many options out there I never even realized until I started planning! Sounds like a great book and having three crazy little boys myself, I couldn’t help giggling to myself when I saw the “Naughty Kids” pic!

  2. Mandie   –  

    Great review! Now I want to read it. Of course our wedding was 1.5 years ago, but one of the things we did that I loved was a bridal party portrait just for my hubby: all his groomsmen wielded plastic swords and took the bridesmaids “hostage” while he and I recreated a pose similar to the original Star Wars poster. Weird? Definitely. Fun? Absolutely!

  3. Michele   –  

    The best compliment received about my wedding was, “Wow, your wedding embodies you, your relationship, your lifestyle and your love for each other, it is uniquely yours and could never be anyone else’s.”

  4. Kristin   –  

    Already, our save the dates are decoders and our reception will be pretty close to a carnival.

    I’ve been wanting to read this book for a long time!

  5. Brandi   –  

    My wedding is July 31, 2010. I am the only child and lost my mother almost 6 years ago at the age of 43 from pulmonary hypertension. She will be unable to walk me down the aisle, so we are goimg to dedicate aspecial chair at the ceremony for her, with her picture on it, so when I walk down the aisle on that special day, I can look over at her picture and be reminded of my beautiful mother on my wedding day and know that she is there with me in spirit!

  6. Ms. Bunny   –  

    My fiance are going to have an ice cream sundae bar instead of a cake. Neither of us like cake all that much and we are so much more excited to do a first scoop than a first cut.

    We’re really trying to put things into perspective and determine what is most important to us. I’ve read Ariel’s blog for a few years now, and I would love to win a copy of her book.

  7. Allison Bell   –  

    I’m going to be an offbeat Bride and darn proud of it!!!! I’m currently planning a very CRAZY non-traditional state park ceremony/barn reception/bar-b-que/ under the stars. I’m shaking tradition every which way I can. The book sounds right up my alley!

  8. Jamie Knox   –  

    I too am a wedding/engagement photographer and I truly enjoy your work and your outlook on weddings. I envy you for the work you do and the funky brides and grooms you work with. I would love to have this book as a resource for my couples who want to break out and express themselves on their wedding day! You are fresh inspiration and I thank you for it. Long live individuality!! :)

  9. the future mrs. culberson   –  

    We are getting married June 27th and one thing kind of offbeat we are doing is concert ticket invitations and a dessert reception with 4 live bands, like a concert.

  10. Aryanna   –  

    Sounds like a fun read for brides, aspiring brides and married folks alike! When planning our wedding, we wanted something low-key and not obnoxiously extravagant but still the coolest damn party we’d ever throw. It was us to a tea and my friends are still raving about how cool it was.

  11. Erika   –  

    I am not having bridesmaids, my fiance and I are having minions. My fiance loves gaming, and “minions” abound in many of his games, and since attendants help out with some menial tasks along with the fun ones, we figure it fits! And it keeps things light, which we want. Also, we might use games as centerpieces/table identifiers (eg, cousins will be at the Scrabble table, and friends will be at the checkers table).

  12. Desiree   –  

    My fiance just proposed to me in front of 20+ of our friends at a party one week ago and my biggest thing about our wedding is that we want it to be fun, unique and comfortable with a few traditional things…and also some funky, non-traditional elements. The one thing we’ve always thought would be fun would be to have a great big GONG! at the reception, rather than those little bells…How much fun would it be to hear a “GONNNG!” and then have to kiss after it. Groomsmen will be in comfortable clothes – including Chuck Taylors, and the girls will most likely have that va-va-voom pin-up element. I love the idea of a non-traditional wedding dress you’ve talked about because white – and long dresses – look terrible on me!

  13. Mich   –  

    I’m an offbeat bride to be and an avid follower of Ariels blog and offbeatbride tribe :) but i havent read her book yet (my bad)
    I’m getting married in a beautiful black wedding dress (hand sewn by me!) walking down the aisle to the transformers soundtrack and having a metal wire bouquet instead of flowers.

  14. Sarah   –  

    My fiance and I are console gamer nerds.. our wedding is on Mischief Night 2010! :D our invitations are replica Xbox games (green disc cases and all!) made to replicate a popular game… we may use the game Left 4 Dead and make “Left 4 Wed” case cover (including zombie hand wearing my Hello Kitty Engagement ring).. the disc will include a playable game! The best part?? Our reception is going to be at a massive ARCADE called Playdium!!

  15. Lisa   –  

    I absolutely ADORE quirky, offbeat and unique touches at weddings! A wedding should be an individual (couple) event that reflects who the pair is in their life together and what is important to them. Traditions are great if they have a special meaning to you personally but following them blindly is boring in my opinion. Personal touches are so important.

  16. Katelyn   –  

    We are having a Halloween themed wedding! I wanted one since I was a little girl but never said anything about it to my fiance then he came up with the same idea. We are having people wear costumes to the reception complete with a costume contest. We are going to have lots of pumpkins, candy, cauldrons, bats, orange daisies, and our colors are purple, green, yellow, orange, and black. We have a fairly non standard wedding party, some wacky vendors, a long haired groom, and a short (ish) haired bride. I’ve been wanting to read this book but I can’t find it anywhere!

  17. Michelle   –  

    I think tradition is great but I also think leaving your own unique signature on your special day is better. I live in an area where peacocks run wild. They are not always seen but they are there. One day I saw a peacock and a peahen strolling down our street, paying no attention to anybody but themselves. That gave me the idea to use peacock colors at my wedding and wear a peacock feather in my hair. The wedding is in the beginning stages of planning but the peacock couple gave me a huge jump start!

  18. Becky Klingman   –  

    Almost the entire wedding party will be wearing white or a variation there of w/ neutral tones. Our “champagne” toast will be chilled white wine (we’re not fans of the bubbly) using old school, wide champagne/toasting glasses (labeled “Bride” and “Groom”) which my parents used over 35 years ago. We also are having a non-religious/back yard ceremony, with our officiant who will be sworn in as a deputy comissioner for the day. Our officiant/friend is the husband of the wedding we met at almost 4 years ago.

  19. Ashleymarie Sey   –  

    My fiance, Kevin and I are doing an offbeat wedding because we don’t want a cookie cutter look. We want our styles and experiences to resemble our union. Our theme is 1960s cocktail tiki lounge, and our cake topper will be two kissing salt and pepper shakers. My dress will be tea-length white Chantilly lace of champagne material and his suit vintage (blue plaid) and charcoal pants. Even though some of these things are minor, our families have an interesting time adjusting (mine more so). They are used to a typical wedding, and ours, is a bit different.

    It’s not just about being an offbeat bride, it’s about being an offbeat couple, who is in love and wants to share with their families taste and style (as classy or as tacky as it might be).

  20. Nancy   –  

    To celebrate our Scottish heritage, my fiance will be wearing a kilt in his family tartan. I’m not fanatical about ‘arranged’ flowers so we’re picking wildflowers the day before the ceremony. We both love beer, so we’re brewing a special ‘Celebration Ale’ for wedding favors. Also part of the DIY, I intend to make seed paper for the invitations. And the best part, my bridesmaids can choose whatever dress they like :)

  21. ria   –  

    i love the idea of herbs in the floral arrangements… :)

  22. Esther   –  

    Our wedding is at a castle, but so far, the biggest theme has been “playful.” Our Save the Dates (e-mail, not print) featured two teddy bears snuggling; we’re planning to have our wedding attendants walk down the aisle with Build-a-Bears instead of bouquets; and as wedding favors/place cards, we’re thinking of giving away mini rubber duckies with personality (ninjas, pirates, aliens, etc.!). I’d love to read the book to get more ideas for a fun, accessible, community-oriented wedding!

  23. kristina   –  

    It took us a long time to finally feel like we WANT a wedding. We both felt our dating was commitment enough. Never thought we would want a traditional wedding, but now that were engaged and realizing that there are a lot of different routes to make it feel like us-we are excited. We just chose a date: Oct 30th-since we met a his halloween party 10 years ago.Our theme will have a 20-30′s era feel since i was dressed like that 10 years ago when we met! I enjoy reading and getting inspired by the offbeat bride page/website. Would love to read the book!

  24. Misse   –  

    This is my second wedding…My fiance and I are making it our own! I am making my own dress for our barefoot beach wedding. Offfbeat bride has so many inspirational stories and ideas for individual weddings. We are having the wedding of our dreams that truly reflects OUR personalities, and no one can change our minds! I would adore a copy of the book.

  25. Laurel   –  

    We’re getting married in Colorado in September and are so excited to celebrate the town we’ve chosen together. The ceremony and reception are in the town park surrounded by mountains and wildflowers, our dinner will include locally-sourced produce and elk, and we’re tapping kegs of Colorado microbrews.

  26. Karli   –  

    I’ve been planning out the vague details lately as we still have 2 years till our wedding date but it is going to be a combination of a rainbow theme and mad hatter tea party in wonderland… And I’m so excited to finalize details and plan, plan, plan!!!

  27. Bernie Nordman   –  

    We are getting married on Oct. 30th of this year at “The Haunted Shack” in my hometown. Its a haunted house that the community puts on every year. They are so excited about us getting married there, that they are building a chapel for us.
    We want to have “Thriller” playing as walk down the isle after being pronounced man and wife. We plan on having some Zombies who work at The Haunted Shack lead us out, doing the Thriller moves.

  28. Stacie   –  

    Our wedding is over a year away, but as English majors we’re going to be incorporating books into the centerpieces (instead of flowers), and authors’ names at our into a backyard Montana wedding with a vintage vibe. I am currently on the fence about acquiring a vintage pink dress from the 40′s for my wedding dress. I tried it on while playing dress up in a costume shop last summer and commented that it was the perfect style for my some-day wedding dress (this was before I was even dating the some-day groom).

  29. kate   –  

    I just have three words: bubble. wand. bouquet.

    We’re not having a wedding party, but my sister really wanted to be part of things, so we’ve designated her the carrier of the bubble wands, which are to be distributed to the other half dozen or so guests, and much silliness will be had as we have a family portrait of bubble blowing.

  30. Rachel   –  

    Getting ready to plan a Victorian/Lovecraftian wedding and I religiously read offbeatbride.com. Would love a copy of the latest edition! Thanks!

  31. Laurel   –  

    I’m still in early planning stages, and can’t believe what people think they can charge for wedding stuff! The two things I must have: wedding dress and good, professional photographer. I’m super excited that we’re not concerned about etiquette. We’ll do what we want. One huge weight off my shoulders – no bridesmaids or groomsmen, just us at the altar. That’s romance to me!

  32. Amber   –  

    We’re both travelers, and although we’re not having a destination wedding, we’re planning a lot of travel motifs. Invitations will look like passports, escort cards like boarding passes, and each table will have a flag from a different country we’ve visited. We’ll have international food as well, mostly Indian, Mexican, and Italian, and the food will be vegan.

  33. tina   –  

    I will be a proud offbeat bride July 24th, 2010. Things that will make our wedding unique: 6 bridesmaids and 1 groomsman, my blue ballet slippers, the flower corsages I will be *knitting* for the bridesmaids, the cake I am baking *myself* topped with love birds that I am also knitting, entertainment provided by our musical family members, our beautiful handmade invitations, seeds we just started that will be potted herbs for table decorations/party favors, and after it all, a bonfire and camp-out! it pays to have a long engagement, more time to plan the wedding goodness <3

  34. Carolee   –  

    we are planning our wedding now, for August 13, 2011. it’s going to be on a full moon, and obviously in summer, so we are going to do a theme of “A Midsummer Night’s Dream”. we are currently looking at theaters to hold the ceremony (instead of a church), and will have family members, and some of the wedding party doing excerpts from the play with my little cousins dressed as fairies, and throwing “pixy dust”. we are going to have the reception in my uncles back yard, and continue the theme.
    we are also choosing to create our last name, to represent us.

  35. April   –  

    We want to do hula hoops instead of dancing, and we want to have cupcakes instead of a traditional cake because we want our wedding to be super fun.

  36. Jenni   –  

    I love the Offbeat Bride website- unfortunately I’ve not been able to find this book in stores. We’re having an offbeat semi-destination wedding in Sedona that is Arizona-inspired and has an alternative rock soundtrack :o )

    Oh and did I mention I’d love the book?!

  37. Kelly   –  

    I want it to be a total festival with different tents that include a meditation area, jazz tent with martini bar, fortune tellers, studio 54 dance floor, massage therapists, Wii gaming tent and go go dancers… if money wasnt an issue.

  38. Krystal   –  

    Currently coming up with idea’s for a midnight, star themed wedding with reception before the wedding (rather than after.. so people who can’t stay up that late can still celebrate with us) and a ring warming as guests take their seats for the I Do’s.

  39. Heather   –  

    I am an artist, he is colorblind. I designed our invitations and silkscreened them in the colors he picked. They are so fun! Keeping with the colorful theme…I am wearing an Audrey Hepburn inspired style in ivory noil but with an apple green petticoat, red patten leather maryjanes, a sash printed in cyanotype. I’m still looking for that perfect necklace and earrings, but my friend that owns a gallery gave me a gorgeous carnelian ring by the same artist who made my engagement ring and my fiance’s wedding band. I’m having a local, yet somewhat famous, singer songwriter play that we will dance to. But what I really need is help with centerpieces. Searching for something unique!

  40. Heidi   –  

    We are getting married on 10/10/10 because we love binary. 101010 also translates into 42 in hexadecimal, which is the answer to “life the universe, and everything” in Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. We have four colors and male and female bridesmaids. I am going to have everyone bring a flower to make my bouquet. We also have pose-able Gonzo and Camilla the Chicken figurines for our cake. We’re incorporating multiple religious elements into our ceremony, like jumping a broom and a chuppa. Yeah, we’re so in love we want to be married in every religion. Most of all we want everyone to have fun! :)

  41. Kymmie   –  

    I’m a huge fan of offbeat bride (all the way from South Africa!) – the different and funky weddings have given me sooooo much inspiration for MY own wedding. I’m getting married on the 10 October 2010, for its unique date (10.10.10). My fiance and I are a geek couple, and with the date 101010 (being binary) signifies our love of all things geek. We have booked a posh wedding venue and are going to funk it up with porno pink, midnight blue and converse!

    Anyways – Keep up with the good work, offbeatbride! Lovin’ it!

  42. Liv   –  

    We plan on having a giraffe cake topper. My flowergirl is a 25 year old, 6’7″ man. My dress has a polka dot sash. I didn’t choose “colors”, I’m just using what I like as I go. All the centerpieces are completely different. Our wedding has no theme. Instead of a cake we are having cake balls. Instead of a DJ or a wedding band my fiance’s band will play. And we’ll be getting married at 10 in the morning.

  43. susan   –  

    my fiancee and i are paying for the whole she-bang ourselves, so to cut costs…we are having a very informal ceremony in the same room as the reception…decor will be green…so loads of paper lanterns, fruit, and re-usable goods! instead of florist arranged centerpieces, we’re using potted plants which we can enjoy and tend to long after the event! we are letting our 3 bridesmaids and 2 groomsmen pick out thier outfits…just telling them to wear black. as appreciation for thier support, we’re giving the groomsmen ties & the ladies scarves! the biggest expenses we’ve agreed will be the music (as she is a huuuge music lover) and photography (as i’m an artist). we aren’t going to have an aisle to walk down, so in case our dads don’t agree to be there…it won’t be a dilemma. instead of ring bearer & flower girl, we’re having bubble kids (having blow bubble guns everywhere)!

  44. Maresa   –  

    My wedding is going to have a dark, Victorian, haute couture Gothic theme. I plan on handcrafting almost everything that will be used for the wedding and the reception in order to put my personal spin on it! This book would be a huge help with ideas! :D

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